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Khanian Psychological Services, LLC
Khanian Psychological Services, LLC
Home
Who We Are
What We Offer
Anxiety Therapy for High-Achievers
Perfectionism
Relationship Patterns & Attachment
Narcissistic Family Dynamics
Social Anxiety
Emotion Regulation & Distress Tolerance
Health Anxiety
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About Dr. Khanian
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"I Should Be Further Along by Now": When the Feeling of Falling Short Has Early Roots
Self-Esteem & Identity Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D. 5/19/26 Self-Esteem & Identity Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D. 5/19/26

"I Should Be Further Along by Now": When the Feeling of Falling Short Has Early Roots

When you've worked hard and achieved a lot, it can feel strange, even embarrassing, to still feel like you're not enough. This post explores where that persistent gap between accomplishment and self-worth comes from, and what actually helps close it.

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Why You Can Be Highly Self-Aware and Still Feel Stuck
Self-Esteem & Identity Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D. 1/2/26 Self-Esteem & Identity Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D. 1/2/26

Why You Can Be Highly Self-Aware and Still Feel Stuck

It's possible to understand exactly where a pattern comes from, trace it back to its origins, and still find yourself repeating it. That gap between knowing and changing is one of the most frustrating experiences people bring to therapy. This post explores why self-awareness, on its own, is rarely enough.

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Khanian Psychological Services, LLC

Serving clients throughout:

NYC • Manhattan • Brooklyn • Queens • Bergen County • Morris County • Essex County • Monmouth County • PSYPACT States

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New York & New Jersey

Authorized for Telehealth: PSYPACT Participating States

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carolynkhanianphd@khanianpsychologicalservices.com
(917) 727-3215