Why You Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Emotions
Relationships & Attachment Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D. Relationships & Attachment Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D.

Why You Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Emotions

If someone is upset, disappointed, stressed, or angry, do you immediately feel responsible for making it better? Feeling responsible for other people’s emotions often goes deeper than people-pleasing. It can develop from early experiences with conflict, unpredictability, guilt, or learning to keep the people around you happy. Here’s why the pattern can be so difficult to break—and how to care about others without abandoning yourself.

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Why Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents Struggle With Guilt
Relationships & Attachment Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D. Relationships & Attachment Dr. Carolyn Khanian, Ph.D.

Why Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents Struggle With Guilt

When setting a limit with a parent feels like a betrayal, even when you know it's necessary, that guilt usually has roots that go back much further than the current conflict. This post explores why adult children of narcissistic parents so often feel responsible for emotions that were never theirs to carry.

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